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Why avoidants STRUGGLE to apologize
6:53
Why avoidants STRUGGLE to apologize
The avoidant ALWAYS had an exit plan
4:27
The avoidant ALWAYS had an exit plan
How the SECURE person handles the avoidant
5:58
How the SECURE person handles the avoidant
Discards are NOT normal breakups!
6:45
Discards are NOT normal breakups!
Healthy partners can give fearful avoidants “the ick”
6:30
Healthy partners can give fearful avoidants “the ick”
When the avoidant is “overwhelmed”
5:08
When the avoidant is “overwhelmed”
Are you in love with who the avoidant actually is, or are you in love with their POTENTIAL?
7:17
Are you in love with who the avoidant actually is, or are you in love with their POTENTIAL?
Texting with an avoidant
4:18
Texting with an avoidant
Situationships usually involve an avoidant
6:54
Situationships usually involve an avoidant
Don’t send that long emotional text to the avoidant ex!
7:35
Don’t send that long emotional text to the avoidant ex!
Your needs feel “controlling” to the avoidant
6:41
Your needs feel “controlling” to the avoidant
Avoidant breakup excuse: “we’re not compatible”
8:01
Avoidant breakup excuse: “we’re not compatible”
When the avoidant goes ALL IN with someone else
4:33
When the avoidant goes ALL IN with someone else
Why dismissive avoidants FEAR vulnerability
6:41
Why dismissive avoidants FEAR vulnerability
Don’t enable the avoidant!
8:10
Don’t enable the avoidant!
Avoidants prioritize work, friends, hobbies over their partner
4:56
Avoidants prioritize work, friends, hobbies over their partner
Why the avoidant won’t give you closure
6:03
Why the avoidant won’t give you closure
Two reasons to go no contact with the avoidant ex
7:24
Two reasons to go no contact with the avoidant ex
Avoidant future faking
7:22
Avoidant future faking
Avoidant love bombing
7:08
Avoidant love bombing
Anxious attachers can be emotionally unavailable, too
6:19
Anxious attachers can be emotionally unavailable, too
Avoidants don’t communicate
5:57
Avoidants don’t communicate
Why avoidant’s are triggered by LOVING partners (and why they prefer toxic partners)
8:32
Why avoidant’s are triggered by LOVING partners (and why they prefer toxic partners)
Will my avoidant ex come back?
8:45
Will my avoidant ex come back?
Avoidants can be IMMATURE and CHILDLIKE
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Avoidants can be IMMATURE and CHILDLIKE
What does the avoidant experience after the discard?
8:46
What does the avoidant experience after the discard?
When the avoidant IMMEDIATELY jumps into a new relationship
6:12
When the avoidant IMMEDIATELY jumps into a new relationship
Are you holding onto the POTENTIAL of the avoidant? (the shared fantasy)
7:22
Are you holding onto the POTENTIAL of the avoidant? (the shared fantasy)
When the avoidant offers “friendship”
4:11
When the avoidant offers “friendship”
The avoidant “slow fade”
7:12
The avoidant “slow fade”